A woman carries a lot of power as she can conceive life but she also has the power to destroy life through this power. She must control her sexuality to the limits of her mate and not misunderstand her sexuality, nor should she look beyond her relationship, or she will create her own suffering while jeopardizing her relationship and bringing harm to her children. Women are teachers they must work hard to bring balance to their families and communities. Today many of our women are trying to play the role of men; they want the men to wash dishes, do laundry and change babies. They get offended when a male who understands the traditional roles refuses to do a woman’s work and look upon him in a negative context. But they neglect to see how pitiful they have become. They want to work and let the video games and televisions raise their children. They cry when their children don’t listen to them or they send them to someone else because they cannot control them. They should be looking at themselves and correct the mistakes that they have made in their limited teachings so they can build a strong family. Women need to understand about their sacred roles in life so we can have healthy communities.
The male must be able to hold the power of the male within him, but also the power of the woman. In this natural process he was carried within his mother so her fluids are within him. He must learn how to balance this power in order to take a wife, or the power of the fluids will make him weak to women and he will never find proper balance. He must understand that he has a role to be a teacher and a provider; he must understand how to treat his partner so that she can maintain her strength as a teacher. He must learn to listen with his heart and his mind.
Today we lack knowledge around our roles. Dating is not a traditional practice. If you start to test drive when you are seventeen years old you will always be searching for the right one and never be truly satisfied. Traditionally our youth were prepared for their first encounter with a partner and relationships were chosen correctly. It is important to remember that you must be in balance before taking a mate. You must attend ceremony before living together to ensure that you are making the proper decision. Many relationships start off with a physical attraction and they end when that attraction wears off. In contrast, a relationship that is started with the union of two people brought together by ceremony will last a life time. The grandfathers will have pity on us and bless us with a partner who is crying out for the same thing. The end result is unconditional love for Creator and your mate; a marriage made in heaven