ADHD fraud and the chemical holocaust against a generation of children

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Comment by RasNathan on July 16, 2010 at 7:40pm

Jerry thought you might not like this post but these folks should know your real name is jerry crowley and your a
pedofile.Jerry has molested his daughters and uses the internet etc. my post speaks for it self,dont need to say any more.Jerry is my bio dad but not my spirtual father .Hes slicker than a shark on a hot day.

Comment by RasNathan on July 16, 2010 at 7:19pm

Identifying the Predator: Spiritual, Financial, and Sexual Abusers

There are common traits, common behaviors in human predators of all kinds. Spiritual scammers often operate the same way and use the same methods as other types of criminal con artists, batterers, and rapists. These different kinds of abuse often blend into each other.

A liar doesn’t just tell falsehoods/lies to strangers or only in certain situations. A liar routinely lies to everyone. In the same way, a spiritual fraud is not just a spiritual liar. He or she will always lie about other things as well.

Understanding these patterns of deceit among abusers and rapists gives us direct insight into the patterns of spiritual frauds. The following points are offered specifically about the patterns of physical abusers but the parallels to spiritual exploiters should be clear. The aim of this post is to help people in spotting frauds before they can do harm, and to help those who have been harmed find help.

1. Abusers are charming and tend to be very skilled at social manipulation.
2. They are skilled liars. They will also declare they are very honest and honorable but their actual actions will show otherwise.
3. They are in control of their actions, not out-of-control. They do not harm everyone they meet. They are very careful to abuse people they feel confident they can get away with harming, such as wives/girlfriends, children, “apprentices,” or those they are “instructing” ceremonially. Substance abuse may increase their aggression but you should never accept being high/drunk as an excuse for their actions. They are far more in control of their actions than they let on and they also harm their victims when sober.
4. They blame others for their behavior. “The abuser shifts responsibility for his actions away from himself and onto others, a shift that allows him to justify his abuse because the other person supposedly "caused" his behavior.” The fact is, abusing another person is a choice. It is the fault of no one but the abuser.
5. While “friends” and acquaintances will be subjected to manipulation, lies and sometimes emotional abuse, usually only the abuser’s intimate partners and immediate family will see the monstrous side of them. Abusers are very invested in their public image, and will use acquaintances to lie for them and/or pass on their lies in their defense. They will spend a great deal of time lying to non-intimate “friends” to lay a false trail of misdirection and alibis. On the internet and in long-distance phone calls, it is particularly easy for abusers to construct a good front for their online friends who may never meet them in person.
6. Abusers specialize in finding out your vulnerabilities. In the beginning they will tell you how special you are. They will encourage you to confess your fears and vulnerabilities, and they will make a good show of being vulnerable themselves (even though it is just an act and built on lies). They do this to make you emotionally dependent on them, and so later they can use these things to harm and manipulate you.
7. They will seem too good to be true. And they are.

There is a common misconception that predators and abusers are easy to spot, that they display obvious signs of their predatory nature. While there are warning signs to look out for (linked below), predators have carefully tailored their disguises through their years of abusing others and getting away with it.

If predators weren’t skilled at convincing potential victims and supporters that they’re a nice guy (and those who commit physical abuse are overwhelmingly male), they wouldn’t be successful at what they do. They’ve learned how to fool and manipulate people. It’s their profession. If they weren’t good at fooling people, they would have moved on to some other way of making a living by now. By the time an abuser is middle-aged or elderly, they are very experienced at it; they are not going to change.

Abusive behavior usually starts after the victim has made an emotional, spiritual, and/or financial commitment to the predator. Abuse usually starts right after some milestone: moving in together, getting married, pregnancy, or the birth of the first child. With spiritual predators, it’s often once the victim has made a ceremonial commitment and/or given the predator a large amount of money. Once that investment on the part of the victim is there, the predator knows the victim will be hesitant to throw away all that time and effort they’ve invested in the relationship. By that point the abuser has probably also isolated the victim from other sources of support and information, and has made sure the victim sees them as the unquestionable source of the truth.

The vast majority of rapists don’t hang out in alleys to commit “stranger” rape. “Over 70% of sexual assaults are committed by someone the survivor knows. Over 40% of sexual assaults occur in the victim's home and another 30% take place in the home of a friend, neighbor or relative.”

If you’ve been abused, there is help available. Once you know the patterns to look for, abusers are much easier to spot. Remember, if someone has harmed you, you can bet there are other victims out there. If everyone who has been abused speaks up, the world will change. Those who work the hotlines, who counsel victims of domestic violence and other forms of sexual and spiritual abuse, have heard it all before. They will recognize your story. They won't be shocked and you don't have to be ashamed. The patterns are all too common.

Web Resources

No Nonsense Self-Defense is an excellent site with many informative articles. Among them:
* Profile of a Rapist: http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/profile.html
* Stalking/Domestic Violence: http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/stalking.html#domesticviolence

Domestic Violence: In the Mind of the Abuser: http://www.mvwcs.com/mindabuser.html

Warning Signs of an Abusive Personality: http://www.hiddenhurt.co.uk/Abuser/signs.htm

Myths and Facts about Sexual Assault: http://www.mvwcs.com/samythfact.html
(“Myth: Women frequently "cry rape". Fact: The FBI reports that false accusations account for only 2% of all reported sexual assaults. This is no higher than false reports for any other crime.”)

Patterns of Emotional Abuse: http://www.mvwcs.com/emotionalabuse.html

Be Alert To Common Traits of Stalkers: http://www.esia.net/Common_Traits_of_Stalkers.htm

Books

* Why Does He DO That? - Inside the minds of angry and controlling men by Lundy Bancroft (This book identifies specific types of abusers and their M.O.s, though many abusers are of mixed types): http://www.lundybancroft.com/children-abuse-help-books.html
* The Anatomy of Motive by John E. Douglas and Mark Olshaker (Understanding criminal psychology, the reasons predators abuse, the types of victims they target, and why): http://books.google.com/books?id=3ewAoOHQQzcC
* Trauma and Recovery by Judith Hermann (Help recovering from PTSD, whether from combat in war or surviving domestic violence): http://www.jimhopper.com/trauma_and_recovery/

Phone and Internet Resources

* National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233): http://www.ndvh.org/
* RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673): http://www.rainn.org/
* Sacred Circle: National Resource Center to End Violence Against Native Women: 1-877-RED-ROAD (1-877-733-7623): http://www.sacred-circle.com/FOR%20A%20WOMAN%20WHO%20HAS%20BEEN%20B... “Women Are Sacred! Violence Against Native Women Is Not Traditional!”
* Mending the Sacred Hoop, Technical Assistance Project: http://www.msh-ta.org/
* Red Wind Consulting, Violence Against Native Women: http://www.red-wind.org/programs/programs.html
* Domestic Violence and Native Americans: http://aihc1998.tripod.com/violence.html
* Native Women's Society of the Great Plains: 1-605-455-2939 (not toll-free): http://www.nativewomenssocietyofthegreatplains.org/Members.html
* South Dakota Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault: 1-800-572-9196: http://www.southdakotacoalition.org/members.html

I hope you find this helpful. The resources listed above are unfortunately biased to the USA and English so it would be extremely helpful if people from other countries could also add resources in other languages.

Permission to re-post granted by the author.

Comment by RasNathan on July 11, 2010 at 7:56am

Well then you should give tea to the homeless to test it out?What tea works for this?